Make Getting Ready An Act Of Self-Love

Too often, getting ready becomes another rushed chore — a routine we speed through, barely noticing ourselves in the mirror, focused only on making it out the door on time. But this daily moment holds so much more potential.

When we slow down and approach our get-ready routine with care and intention, it becomes more than just preparation — it becomes an act of self-care. Each step, from the way we cleanse our skin to what we choose to wear, is an opportunity to honor ourselves, to reconnect, and to remind our minds and bodies that we are worthy of love, attention, and time.

I’m a firm believer that putting effort into your appearance is an act of self-respect. When we present ourselves at our best, we naturally feel our best. I often ask myself: If I were to run into an old friend or classmate today, is this the version of myself I want to present? Am I reflecting the woman I truly want to be?

In a world where social media often highlights our perceived shortcomings, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others. However, the time we spend getting ready can be a powerful moment — the first step toward embracing our potential and becoming the person we aspire to be. It’s a chance to show up as our best selves, not for anyone else, but for ourselves.

Set The Mood

The first step to elevating your get-ready routine is creating a clean, mood-setting space. Think about it — when you go to a spa, part of the experience is the calming atmosphere. You can replicate that feeling right at home. Start by opening the curtains or blinds to let in natural light. If you're aiming for a more soothing vibe, turn on a soft lamp. Set the tone with music that matches the energy of the day or the event ahead, or if you prefer, play your favorite show to keep you entertained. If your living space allows, light your favorite candle (just be cautious). Creating this environment is the perfect way to begin your routine with intention and relaxation.

Take Your Time

Take your time! Give yourself an extra 30 minutes in your routine — it’s amazing what a difference a little more time can make. There’s a sense of peace that comes with a routine where you can enjoy each step, rather than feeling rushed. You may even discover new ways to be creative with your beauty, clothing, and styling that you might have overlooked before. Instead of defaulting to basic outfits when you're pressed for time, you can approach your wardrobe with more intention and flair.

If you really want to make it easier on yourself, consider setting out your looks the night before. This way, you’ll have everything ready to go, and can truly enjoy the process without the pressure of last-minute decisions. A huge benefit of taking your time is that you’ll arrive at your destination looking polished and put-together, free from the stress of rushing. You’ll feel confident, calm, and ready to shine!

Make This A Routine

When you turn getting ready into a daily or weekly routine, it becomes a built-in moment of self-care you can truly count on — a space just for you to flourish, reflect, and express yourself. Taking your time and creating an intentional environment shouldn’t be reserved only for big events or special occasions.

You woke up this morning — that makes today a special day.

It’s not about saving your favorite outfit, lipstick, jewelry, or fragrance just for weddings, parties, or holidays. You deserve to put your best foot forward every time you step into the world — because you are worth that effort every single day.

When you approach getting ready as an act of self-care, it transforms from a rushed chore into a meaningful routine. It becomes a powerful reminder that you don’t need to wait for life’s milestones to feel beautiful, confident, and seen. You are allowed to show up as your best self — for yourself — every single time.